New Pediatrician Recos – Out with the Old

Nicole Keller, D.O.

Nicole Keller, D.O.

Medicine is an ever changing topic. We are constantly learning new things that make us change our old recommendations. I’m sure to parents with multiple kids, it may seem frustrating to have been told one thing with your first child and then given a new piece of advice with the next. We promise we’re not trying to be wishy-washy, rather, we want to make sure we give you the best and most updated recommendations at all times! Sometimes doctors even need to update each other to make sure we are staying on top of new developments as well.

Regarding this, I read a great article in the Chicago Tribune back in early January (1/9/2015 to be exact) written by Danielle Braff detailing some of the newer pediatric recommendations out there. The article really did a good job of dispersing needed updates on important topics. So for this blog, I’d like to detail some of these recommendations for you if you haven’t already heard them at your child’s most recent doctor’s visit.

1. Children need to be in a rear-facing car seat until 2 years of age.

The old recommendation and Illinois law state that kids should be rear facing until they are one year old, but, we have found keeping kids rear facing as long as possible is the safest thing to do. Make sure that your child is within the limits for their car seat’s height and weight restrictions in addition to following this prolonged rear-facing rule.Baby Boy Car Seat

2. There are little to no food restrictions when starting your baby on foods at 6 months of age.

There are two new recommendations here: the first is to start solid foods at six months of age instead of at four months like you might have previously heard. This decreases the risk of multiple infections and makes sure your baby is developmentally ready to swallow thicker foods as well. Secondly, you don’t have to start with just cereal anymore – fruits, veggies, even meats are OK as long as they are pureed and given one ingredient at a time. In addition, there is no need to wait to offer allergenic foods (like peanut butter, eggs, strawberries, etc) – as long as the food isn’t a choking hazard, feel free to offer it! Please make sure to offer one ingredient at a time and wait two to three days before introducing a new ingredient. That way, in case there is a reaction to a food, we know what it is from. Lastly, still no honey should be offered until one year of age.

3. As soon as your child has teeth, you can brush them twice a day with fluoride toothpaste.

We used to say that young children shouldn’t have fluoride in their toothpaste for risk of overdosing on the fluoride since they don’t know how to spit. The thing is, you would have to consume A LOT of fluoride for that to happen. Infants three years and younger  should have a grain of rice size amount of toothpaste. Children older than three can have a pea-sized amount. Speaking of dental hygiene, pregnant women can and should continue to get dental work during their pregnancy – it is safe and highly recommended to keep your oral cavity clean and free of germs that may travel to the rest of the body.

4. You can use tap water to mix formula and to offer your child to drink.

We used to say that bottled water or nursery water was the better water to use for babies. Now, though, the recommendation is that tap water is safe to use – and better because of the fluoride found in it. The only exception to this rule may be if you are on well water. Then you should have your water tested to make sure it has safe amounts of minerals for your child to consume. If you aren’t sure, you can always boil your tap water and wait for it to cool before using it for your child. Remember, free water shouldn’t be given to babies until they are six months old unless your pediatrician suggests it.

5. Picky eaters may always be picky, so make sure you start them right with a healthy variety of foods in infancy.

New research has told us that many children don’t outgrow their picky eating habits that they develop in the toddler years. For this reason, it is especially important to start your children eating a healthy variety of foods. When kids don’t have these healthy fruits, vegetables, meats and starches as babies or young infants, it is less likely they’ll like them as older kids. It can take kids multiple attempts to like a food – so keep trying! Sometimes it can take 12 to 20 times of tasting a food before we know for sure they don’t like it. Wait a couple weeks, and then go for it again!

I hope this has helped clear up some of the new recommendations in the childhood years. As always, make sure to talk to your pediatrician if you aren’t sure if something is right for you, your child or your family.  Cheers!

Kyla Ababio, M.D.

Kyla Ababio, M.D.

Any parents of toddlers know that it is one of the most challenging phases of childhood. Your once non-verbal precious peanut who just wanted to be held, rocked and fed, now seems to only want to scream “I can do it by myself”, or “NO”, or “That’s mine!” and “Don’t tell me what to do!” That is their way of asserting control and declaring independence. During this phase they must also master control over their body functions including toilet-training, self-feeding, delayed gratification, language development, coping with frustration and social skills. Parenting is most challenging and rewarding when toddlerhood is done well. Here’s how to help your child with her tantrums from an article that I read in Parents magazine:toddler mischief

1. Be genuinely empathic to your toddler’s struggle. She needs your support. If she feels you’re flustered, disorganized, angry, or critical you will only escalate her rage and not be able to help her calm down. Your objective is to teach her how to settle herself.

2. Learn to talk reflectively with empathy in the moment of a conflict. You might say, “Mary (use her first name since pronouns are not mastered until age 4) wanted more video and Mommy said it’s bath time. Mary got mad. It’s hard to stop when you want more.”

3. Physically, walk your screaming child to her next destination, ie: to the bath to help her settle and calm down there. Children will escalate their yelling and protest, thinking you might change your no to a yes. If you are away from the location of the desired object your child will calm down faster.

4. If your child is out of control or has been aggressive (hitting, biting, scratching, or pinching), hold your child in your lap facing away from you to help calm your child. The holding provides a safe container so you can act as a receptacle for your child’s rage. Your child learns that she can be super angry and you do not attack, criticize, blame, or collapse as the target for their rage. Tell your child that when she stops pulling on you, you will let go. The moment her muscles relax, release her and praise her for learning to settle herself. You will not have to hold her too many times before you see a decrease in the frequency and intensity of her oppositional tantrums.

5. Do not lecture your child. Kids hate to be told what to do. Rather, after a tantrum talk gently with your child about what she wanted and was feeling. Together come up with alternative ways she can get what she wants without a meltdown. Always accept your child where she is. We are all on a learning curve. No one is perfect. We all want the same thing – to be acknowledged, validated, and accepted – flaws and all.

Just remember that this is just a phase and it too shall pass!

Pluggin’ Away

Binky, paci, pluggie, nuk, dummy…no matter what you call it, there has been some controversy over using pacifiers. Probably the major concerns are nipple confusion for breastfed babies and dental issues in the future. Let’s face it - babies love to suck. It is their primary way of getting food in the first 4 to 6 […]

Continue Reading.

Measles is Here

It is 12:31 a.m. I just finished nursing my son and I can’t turn my racing mind off. All I can think about are the families who tonight are “nursing” their children who have contracted measles. I can’t imagine the fear and sadness they are feeling as their child battles this preventable illness. I’m thinking […]

Continue Reading.

Mommy “Hood”

Hello parents! Has anyone seen The Mother ‘Hood Official Video being circulated on social media? It is a really heartwarming ‘welcome to parenthood’ skit expressed in a unique way. In the video it shows groups of moms (and dads) who have different beliefs all meeting on a playground getting ready to “brawl” over their different beliefs […]

Continue Reading.